[Love Life and Lose Weight] 84: 84: Open Loops: The Real Reason You Can’t Focus or Follow Through

August 5, 2025

🎯 In This Episode, You’ll Discover:

If you’ve ever thought you just need more motivation, more willpower, or more structure to stay on track with your weight loss goals—you’ll want to hear this.

There’s something happening behind the scenes in your mind that’s quietly sabotaging your ability to focus, follow through, and stay consistent. And no one’s really talking about it—until now.

In today’s episode, we’re unpacking:

✨ A sneaky source of mental exhaustion that’s hiding in plain sight
✨ Why even high-achievers struggle to stay present and consistent with food habits
✨ The surprising link between this mental clutter and emotional or mindless eating
✨ What you need instead of more willpower to finally feel in control
✨ A weekly practice that can create instant clarity and long-term follow through

This is the hidden work that makes sustainable weight loss feel easier—because your brain finally has the space to show up for the life (and body) you want.

💭 If You’ve Been Saying Things Like:

“I know what to do, I just don’t do it.”
“I feel like I’m always behind and overwhelmed.”
“I eat on autopilot when I’m tired or scattered.”

Then press play now. There’s a good chance this one shift will make everything feel lighter.

📔 Ready for a System That Helps You Follow Through?

This episode is inspired by the exact method I use (and teach) to help you feel clear, calm, and back in control—even when life is chaotic. Take a peek at my Follow-Through Planner at HBeardsley.com/planner. If you want a discount code, just hop on the list at HBeardsley.com/ftp.

🎯 Links & Resources

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Audio engineering by Young Cub Audio.

It's possible

Never worry about what to eat again

How amazing would it be to feel confident and clear about your eating during the week, on weekends, and even while traveling or during the holidays.

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I'm Heather Beardsley

I’m an advanced certified weight and life coach who holds a master’s degree in education. I don’t just talk about weight loss; I work full-time as a coach. More than that, I live the lifestyle. My story is powerful proof that the diet industry is broken, and it can and will break you too, unless you are willing to leave it all behind you. We were sold a lie about weight loss that blames the dieter for a lack of self-control in a system that demonizes food as good or bad. That all can stop for you today, too.